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Joan is 75 and lives in Buckley, Flintshire. She has fostered for Cheshire West and Chester Council for 35 years.

Why did you become a foster carer?

“I wanted to help children who haven’t had a good childhood.”

How many children have you fostered and what types of fostering have you done?

“I’ve fostered about 30 children. Sibling groups, age group 10 -15 years, long-term, short-term, emergency placements, hard to place. I’ve fostered boys more than girls after only having sons myself.

Who lives at home?

“Me, my partner, our 17 year old foster child, recently placed. He is the brother of our previous foster child who has lived with us from when he was 12. He is in the army now but comes home on leave which is great for both of them. Their younger brother stays with us once a month just for the day at the moment, hopefully overnights soon.  Our Yorkshire terrier dog, she drives us mad but she has a lovely nature.

Do you have any advice for anyone thinking of becoming a foster carer or starting the process?

“It is hard work and very rewarding. Support groups are essential and training is good, it makes you very aware of the difficulties and heartaches. Accepting of children’s families is a must, and essential. You need patience, understanding and a love of caring for children.

What have been the positives of fostering?

“Foster children and their own families now, keeping in touch. It’s been lovely seeing them doing well in life.”

What small things have made a big impact?

“When they talk about their memories with us, holidays, Christmas, birthdays and family parties. We have had so many happy times and we know that children have enjoyed living with us.”

If you would like to become a foster carer, please request an information pack and make an enquiry today at www.foster4.co.uk/enquire

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